Fix the Problems in your life!

Everyone on this earth feels sad.  We lose our jobs, have bad break ups, or our one day is just shot to hell.  Some people don't take it as well as others.  We hold stuff inside because we can't show our feelings.  Maybe you don't have anyone at all.  I've struggled with depression for years.  Now that I found spirituality, I find myself more centered.  So we ask ourselves Where Do I Start?  Well, I know this society has a quick fix for everything but I will tell you right now.  It simply won't work.  I've tried every quick fix out there.  Drinking, sex, food and many more.  Those are all roads to addiction.  Every single one.  Now if you truly want to change there are sure fire ways to cure your problems.  I mean cure them forever!  But it takes working on them everyday !  You can't stop one day, and start the next.  The stuff we despise, HARD WORK!  Also, you have to be truly and honestly ready or it won't work.  You will defiantly fall off the wagon.  Baby steps go along way if you want success.  No anecdote ever works right away.  This is what life is about right!  The so-called journey.  The people you get to meet along the way.  So take the plunge to a better life.  You'll feel happier just in your own skin.  You'll become a person sitting there looking at the sky calmly like those people you think are crazy , or have some bad debilitating mental illness.  The simplest answer is love.  Just love one another and send love.  Ok now this might sound all kinds of homo or pedophile all over it, but I'm living proof it works.

For example, one day while walking down the block going to the supermarket I see a middle aged guy.  Oh I don't bother him or hound him to come to a party or beg him to be best friends with me.  I simply smile at him. nothing flirty or sexual girls!  A friendly hello smile.  Now towards the end of the block I notice we are both going to same place.  Even better!  We go in and start shopping.  We end up in some isle.  The cat food isle.  I look at him and simply ask a question about kitty liter.  He tells me the kind he uses.  Then from that point on we hit it off talking about our cats!  No we aren't dating.  I set boundaries right away.  But now we share things about our cats.  It's surprising what a little small talk can do!  It boosts your confidence and puts a smile on your face to forget your troubles and realize that you are not alone in this world.  Everyone is depressed but the one and only key is to feel accepted.  We start to see that we aren't the only ones who are depressed and are hurting inside.

Now how do you fix it?  Cut out all the things bad in your life.  Continue to look for different approaches to fix your life.  People let themselves get caught up in bad parts because they feel they can't get out, or think they don't deserve it.  Well you do deserve it!  Write in on a piece of paper and stick it to you mirror to remind you!  YOU DESERVE IT!  In all the research on how to overcome love, money, or family, you have to push yourself.  If it's not working, the hard truth that has to be faced here is that people simply don't want to change.  God Bless, and I am always here to help.